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		<description><![CDATA[Dwayne Gilbert asked: If your like everyone else, there is more you want out of life. A sense of accomplishment and success that so few people get to realize in their lifetime. The positive side is that you can have, do, or be anything you want to be. The other side is that it really [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Dwayne Gilbert						</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>If your like everyone else, there is more you want out of life. A sense of accomplishment and success that so few people get to realize in their lifetime. The positive side is that you can have, do, or be anything you want to be. The other side is that it really is fairly simple to have the life of your dreams. Not easy necessarily, but simple. The down side is that so few people are willing to do what it takes to discover that success for themselves.</p>
<p>There are only a handful of traits that you must develop within yourself to be able to discover the success you seek. With the right discipline in these areas and the constant application of the following principles, you cannot help but be success at anything you apply yourself to. Develop these concepts into habits, and the world will be at your command.</p>
<p>The first trait that is absolutely necessary for success is commitment. Just as getting married involves a commitment for it to be successful, everything else, including making money, involves a commitment. Most people fail at becoming wealthy or successful at anything simply because they do not have a commitment. They want something, but it is only a fancy for having it, not a deep seated desire. A desire that is so strong and so driving that they are willing to go through anything to get what they want. If we were to compare these desires to fires, successful people would have a burning desire for success and what they want that would be equal to a forest fire taking up half the state of California. Most people are lucky to have a campfire for desire. Develop your desire to live the life of your dreams, and nothing can stop you.</p>
<p>The second thing that is necessary for you to be successful is to know what it is you want. Less than 5% of people out there take the time to write down what it is they want. Even fewer know exactly what it is they want and when they will have it. You must know what you want, and exactly when you want, period. You must write it down and review on a regular basis. If you don&#8217;t you are on the quickest path to failure.</p>
<p>The third trait that so few people develop is a plan. Many people either do nothing, or just do anything. A good plan helps keep you on track with what you want to accomplish and where you want to go. It also allows you to know when corrections need to be made to keep on track and exactly where you are on the course. Just as a map lets you know what highway needs to be taken next to get from New York City to San Fransisco. Without a map, one could just start traveling west, but it could takes weeks, or even months to get to California. Take the time to create a map to help you get to where you want to go, but leave it flexible enough for the inevitable bumps and detours that will happen.</p>
<p>The fourth trait necessary to have is a strong heart. No matter what path one takes, if it is outside the social norm of what others think is possible or acceptable, there will be criticism. There will always be nay-sayers. There will always be friends and family that think you dream to big. People who think you couldn&#8217;t possibly have what you want, or that normal people could never be wealthy or happy. You must become like steel. You must take your mind away from these people and ignore everything they tell you. You must keep your eye on the prize and keep going no matter what. You must develop a desire and driving force that will blow past these sort of people.</p>
<p>The final trait necessary for success is action. So many people dream big, but never take a single step in the direction of accomplishment. A desire, a good plan, knowing what you want. All of that is useless and nothing more than pipe dreams if you don&#8217;t take action toward accomplishing it. Taking action alone with a strong desire is all that is really necessary for success. However, a good plan and the ability to stay focused on the goal helps make the path quicker and easier. There are people who take no action, and people who do nothing but take action. Some people are really good at taking action, again and again and again. They start this, then they start something else, then they move onto another thing. Those types of people never get anything done either because they are always starting new projects. So get started, follow your plan, and stay the course. Be sure to do something every single day to move you closer to your goals.</p>
<p>So success is really that simple. Decide what it is you want and write it down. Review that list on a regular basis. Develop a driving force within yourself to have what you want out of this life, and refuse to settle for even 1% less than that. Develop a plan with specific dates for when you will get what you want, and work the plan. Develop the ability to take your mind off of any negativity that could hamper your success. Become like solid steel and stand strong and firm for what you want and believe. Finally, take action on your dreams and goals. Don&#8217;t hesitate, don&#8217;t delay, don&#8217;t even wait one second. Take action, and take it now. As Nike would say, just do it!</p>
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		<title>Change &#8211; The True Measure of Success</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jan 2011 02:41:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dax Moy asked: &#8220;What most fundamentally characterizes the well-adjusted, or highly sane person is not chiefly the particular habits or attitudes that he holds, but rather the deftness with which he modifies them in response to changing circumstances.&#8221; &#8211; Wendell Johnson What a great quote, huh? Really makes you think about all those times when [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Dax Moy						</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>&#8220;What most fundamentally characterizes the well-adjusted, or highly sane person is not chiefly the particular habits or attitudes that he holds, but rather the deftness with which he modifies them in response to changing circumstances.&#8221; &#8211; Wendell Johnson</p>
<p>What a great quote, huh?</p>
<p>Really makes you think about all those times when you&#8217;ve hoped, wished and dreamed that thing in your life would change for the better and yet prevented the very same from happening by failing to change the way you&#8217;re approaching life doesn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>(Well, it does for me anyway!)</p>
<p>Think about it; how many times in your life have you said to yourself &#8220;Things have GOT TO change! I can&#8217;t live like this anymore!&#8221; and then gone right out and done the things you&#8217;ve always done in the exact same way you&#8217;ve always done them?</p>
<p>Come on, be honest!</p>
<p>Well, you can change all that today you know.</p>
<p>You really can.</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s simple too.</p>
<p>Just do 1 thing differently to the way you normally do it.</p>
<p>Drive another route home.</p>
<p>Leave work an hour earlier.</p>
<p>Stay an hour later.</p>
<p>Take a day off.</p>
<p>Read a book.</p>
<p>Take the kids to a movie.</p>
<p>Send flowers.</p>
<p>Call your parents.</p>
<p>Look, it really doesn&#8217;t matter what you do but do it differently and the change begins.</p>
<p>And once it does, wow!</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t believe me?</p>
<p>Just try changing something in your life today then tell stand back and observe the amazing difference it makes to your life.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll be stunned by how the small things lead to big results!</p>
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		<title>Success &#8211; Finding the Right Definition</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Jan 2011 02:41:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nathan Sichilongo asked: In the 21st Century, success is usually measured by the financial muscle of an individual versus the real value of a person. The sad thing is that many people go by this measurement and never really discover true success. The essence of success is that it is not managed in quantity but [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Nathan Sichilongo						</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>In the 21st Century, success is usually measured by the financial muscle of an individual versus the real value of a person. The sad thing is that many people go by this measurement and never really discover true success. The essence of success is that it is not managed in quantity but in quality of life lived. The more we acquire the less value we place on life. Money doesn&#8217;t buy happiness but it can contribute to our happiness considerably. If we want to become a success, we should stop measuring ourselves with others and address the real issues, are we doing something we love? If we had a choice would we be excited about our lives? Are we excited right now? Our quest for becoming a success is only and I mean only fueled by passion. No passion equals no success. Once we find our passion, we should do all we can to be a success. Success is not an event, its a state of mind.The word success is usually associated with many things, for some people its the dream and hope of financial status, prestige and even fame. Success in life can mean many things to different people. When looking at the meaning of real success, it involves more than just having money, prestige and fame. Let&#8217;s look into how to become a success in life, its definition and how you can achieve it. </p>
<p>Success can best be described as being happy or content in life. This is the simplest way to define it. Most people tend to value life based on quantity versus quality. The quality of your life is more important than the quantity of it, which is how much &#8216;stuff&#8217; you accumulate or get in life. This does not go to say pursuing money, prestige and fame is wrong but if you are pursuing them doing something that you do not love, it&#8217;s hard to say you are successful. If you are happy with life and you are doing something you passionately love, there is no amount of money, prestige or fame that can take that away from you. This is what makes you truly successful. While media and other people tend to make us view success as external, it is actually internal. Happiness is the root of all success. Money, prestige and fame play a part in happiness but ultimately being a success is about being happy with your life.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jan 2011 18:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Andrew Cox asked: What does it take to be successful? What is success? How can I get there? The best answer to the question of what is success is from Og Mandino: &#8221; Success is meeting your goals.&#8221; The answer to what it takes to be successful and how to get there is a bit [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Andrew Cox						</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>What does it take to be successful? What is success? How can I get there?</p>
<p>The best answer to the question of what is success is from Og Mandino: &#8221; Success is meeting your goals.&#8221;</p>
<p>The answer to what it takes to be successful and how to get there is a bit longer: Success happens at that special intersection of passion, commitment, talent and persistence. Think of those four as separate paths that flow into one path &#8211; one powerful path that leads to success &#8211; in it&#8217;s infinite variety.. It&#8217;s a special place, that path.</p>
<p>That special path is different for each of us. It has to be &#8211; everyone of us is so special and different in every one of those four requirements. But we all have the capacity to arrive at our own intersection &#8211; again and again. What an exciting thought &#8211; that each of us can combine and align our special attributes in such a way to be successful &#8211; as we choose to define success.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s sad that so many people have had experiences that have taught them to be safe, to stay on the sidelines and watch, to hold their passions and commitments in check, to see how the wind blows. What an enormous waste of resources,on a personal level and on every other level. Those are the people that are the subject of Henry David Thoreau&#8217;s statement: &#8221; The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.&#8221;</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t have to be that way.</p>
<p>The idea that there is the potential to exceed anything yet accomplished through a process of self discovery, discipline, commitment and passion is really exciting &#8211; and scary. What&#8217;s really scary is that it lies within each of our capabilities to grow and reach that intersection and do it again and again in our lives. We can do it at any age, under any circumstance, at any stage &#8211; and it&#8217;s not magic, it&#8217;s not a silver bullet, it&#8217;s not limited in any way.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s walk down each of these four paths and see how we can get them to join together to create a level of success greater than any yet experienced.</p>
<p>Passion is the first path for a reason. It&#8217;s the emotion that leads to commitment. It&#8217;s the feeling that comes from the heart and provides us with the strength to dedicate ourselves to people, places, things, ideas, processes. It&#8217;s often the most difficult path to find, but once found, it can be the most sustaining and exciting. Passion is excitement, passion is enthusiasm. It&#8217;s curiosity, it&#8217;s wanting to share, it&#8217;s that spark that lights the fire that leads to commitment. The path of passion runs very close to the path of commitment &#8211; their intersection is vital to creating the foundation for success.</p>
<p>Commitment comes in many forms. The qualities of commitment that we are looking for start with positiveness; the conviction that we are committing to a worthy cause; the belief that what we commit to will result in a positive outcome, and will improve our life and the lives of others. There is no place on our path for negative, destructive commitment. Positive commitment sustains, negative commitment corrodes and destroys. Commitment requires that special feeling of being part of something bigger than self. If there is a single tipping point on the path to success, it is when that feeling of total commitment occurs &#8211; when, as Goethe wrote:</p>
<p>&#8220;Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, <br />the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness.</p>
<p>Concerning all acts of initiative there is one elementary <br />truth, <br />the ignorance of which kills <br />countless ideas and endless plans: <br />That at the moment one definitely commits oneself, <br />then providence moves, too.</p>
<p>All sorts of things occur to help one <br />that would never otherwise occurred. <br />A whole stream of events issues from the decision, <br />raising in one&#8217;s favor all manner of <br />unforeseen incidents and meetings and <br />material assistance which no man <br />could have dreamed would come his way.</p>
<p>Whatever you can do or <br />dream you can, begin it! <br />Boldness has genius, power <br />and magic in it.&#8221;</p>
<p>Talent is the path where the rubber meets the road &#8211; where things can be done &#8211; where action to create success occurs. The belief that anyone can do anything if they put their mind to it may be true at one level, but at the practical level of creating success, it hinders more than it helps. An example: without good eye hand coordination and excellent depth perception, no one is going to be a major league baseball player &#8211; nobody. They don&#8217;t have a piece of the puzzle &#8211; the talent &#8211; that is critical to success. If they persist in trying to a be a major league ball player, they&#8217;re wasting their time. Some people learn that lesson the hard way. &#8220;Experience may be the best teacher, but only fools can learn by no other&#8221; is a harsh reality. Others find out what they are good at, and pursue success from that more powerful place. You can have a passion for and a commitment to baseball, you can manifest that passion and commitment as a spectator, as a sportscaster, as a grounds keeper, as a General Manager or a players agent, or as an employee of the team, but as a player &#8211; not. The talent has to be there to be successful.</p>
<p>The good news &#8211; and it is really good news &#8211; is that talent requirements can be identified, talents already present can be identified, and, in many cases, talents that need to be developed can be &#8211; it&#8217;s exciting. Even more exciting is discovering a passion and a commitment that fits with your unique blend of talents &#8211; now that&#8217;s special. Whether it&#8217;s through experience, failures, successes, self discovery, or tools to help define requirements and capabilities, this is where the engine of success resides &#8211; in the talent to drive that passion and commitment.</p>
<p>And then Persistence, the centerline that keeps the forces generated in the paths of Passion, Commitment and Talent moving toward success. I have a framed saying from Ralph Waldo Emerson that I keep within eyesight . It&#8217;s a powerful message:</p>
<p>&#8220;Press On</p>
<p>Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not: nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not: unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education alone will not: the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.&#8221;</p>
<p>Passion, leading to Commitment, fueled by Talent, and Directed by Persistence &#8211; the formula for success. And in this time of uncertainty and bad news, it&#8217;s so important to find or rediscover our passions and commit or recommit to them, develop the talent &#8211; the skills and abilities and motivators we need to make them happen &#8211; and then persist in meeting our goals.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the package. Now&#8217;s the time It&#8217;s not easy &#8211; but it&#8217;s worth it &#8211; in so many ways. Have a great 2009, and the best of success to you.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 19:29:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tim Connor asked: Achieving sustained success is not all that complicated, unless we choose to make it so. Success is truly a choice. For many, the benefits of success are illusive. These people struggle, search and try year after year to create a life filled with financial security, nurturing relationships and a sense of purpose [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Tim Connor						</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>Achieving sustained success is not all that complicated, unless we choose to make it so. Success is truly a choice.</p>
<p>For many, the benefits of success are illusive. These people struggle, search and try year after year to create a life filled with financial security, nurturing relationships and a sense of purpose and meaning. Others appear to effortlessly achieve greatness, independence and happiness as they travel through the days of their lives.</p>
<p>What are the differences between these two groups? Is it luck, a favorable early environment, good fortune, the right contacts, hard work, a powerful will to succeed, education, good looks, charm or some other measurable qualities? As a fellow traveler in search of success for over forty years, I do not claim to have the answer or the answers to your quest. I do not know the secrets, if there are any secrets, to success.</p>
<p>I have learned, however, that there are certain attitudes, actions, beliefs, and philosophies, that when embraced and followed, ultimately lead to the higher ground.</p>
<p>I believe there are ten traits that successful people regardless of age, gender, profession, education status, or however you would choose to define success embrace and have mastered.</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t matter whether you are a business leader, teacher, florist, artist or in any of the thousands of other roles or positions in life. If you want rewarding and enduring success you must embrace and master each of the ten qualities. I do not believe that success hinges on any single one of the qualities listed or those that I have chosen to leave out . Success is not guaranteed to every human who walks the planet. However, the potential for success is bequeathed to each of us at birth. Success is not an accident or the result of believing that life owes it to you.</p>
<p>Success is not: power, fame, wealth, prosperity, happiness or independence. Once gained, there is no guarantee that the success you have achieved will be maintained indefinitely in any recognizable or anticipated form. If success is lost, it is not destined to elude us forever. Success is a choice.</p>
<p>Life offers no guarantees &#8211; just choices; no certainty &#8211; just consequences; no predictable outcomes &#8211; just the privilege of pursuit. People who succeed and fail come in all shapes, sizes, colors, ages, nationalities and gender. In the end, success is not what we achieve or accumulate, but who we have become in the process.</p>
<p>Successful people succeed because they do the things necessary for success. Failures want the same success outcomes and rewards, but they either don&#8217;t know which traits to develop or they refuse or fail to develop them while on their life journey.</p>
<p>Many people, when attempting to excuse themselves from the personal responsibility of a successful life, do so by blaming others, their background or circumstances. Life is a neutral concept. It responds to a person&#8217;s beliefs, commitments, expectations, effort, attitudes and actions. It always gives us what we unconsciously desire, deserve and ask for.</p>
<p>Life is not selective. It doesn&#8217;t pick on some people while showering others with innumerable benefits or gifts. It is a perfect example of cause and effect in the ebb and flow of life. Life is not fair. It is not unfair either. It just is.</p>
<p>In the end, people who want to succeed, do because they take the time and energy to develop the required characteristics and attitudes. Their success, however, may not resemble their early picture of what they thought their success would look like when they embarked on their journey. Most people who fail, subconsciously want to fail. Oh, they may say they want success and its trappings, but in reality they do not believe in their hearts that they deserve it or will ever achieve it. We are all magnets. We attract into our experience and life that which is consistent with our inner beliefs, values, thoughts, expectations and desires.</p>
<p>Here are the ten.</p>
<p>-Control your thoughts</p>
<p>-Relentless Self-Promotion</p>
<p>-Unwavering Belief</p>
<p>-Know Your Purpose</p>
<p>-Maintain Your Passion . . . 37</p>
<p>-Time is your Ally</p>
<p>-Overcoming Adversity</p>
<p>-The Spirit of Optimism</p>
<p>-Persistence Is A way Of Life</p>
<p>-Focus On What You Can Do Now</p>
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		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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<div><em><strong>Kirsten Plotkin						</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>If all it took to succeed in an internet business was enthusiasm and hard work, most internet marketers would have a successful business right now. The sad fact is that most of them do not. It is not that simple. Doing business on the internet demands a lot more skill than most newbies realize.</p>
<p>Clearly, the right skills as well as the right tools are fundamental to any business, including an internet business. Yet, when it comes to the internet we seem to expect these rules not to apply. Somehow, logic is suspended. That is strange, and a little foolish at the same time, because this belief can be very costly.</p>
<p>For example; If you are seduced by shortcuts, which promise easy to use products, on full automation, just remember, you will be the one who has to figure out how to market and sell these products, because no amount of automation will do that. Nor will it pay for your advertising, and if you lack experience, advertising, can be very expensive, particularly if it is badly done.</p>
<p>So getting those important skills and tools ought to be your first priority and that will apply whatever internet business you intend to make your own. shortcuts to success are rare and will invariably involve someone helping you.</p>
<p>Sure, there are big benefits when you don&#8217;t have to work in isolation. Who says the internet has to be a lonely place? But before you can get started you have to learn the fundamentals, and if you are wise, you will learn them without spending money, particularly on products that promise you quick wealth.</p>
<p>So to get the right start on the internet you need to get with the right people. If you were starting out in a real life business your expectations would be quite different. The thing is, you should not expect an internet business to be different. It requires premises, eg a website or a capture page. It requires product knowledge, It requires the proper tools of the trade, it needs a business plan and whatever the business, it needs to be advertised.</p>
<p>How well you plan, and how you do your advertising will make a big difference to how well your business runs and how much it will cost you. Give yourself at least a three month probation period, exclusively devoted to learning, before you spend any money. I know, if you are new to the internet the thought of that will be repugnant to you. But let me ask you this: What do you know about keywords, or html or RSS feeds, PPC, or any number of other terms commonly used on the internet? If you don&#8217;t know what they mean, it probably suggests you have something to learn.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Jan 2011 21:13:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sharon A. Michaels asked: Planning for success can be a great motivator. Just the thought of buying the new car, building your dream house, going on a well deserved vacation or sending the children to private school can instantly put a smile on your face. Then, reality sets in and you stare at your newly [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Sharon A. Michaels						</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>Planning for success can be a great motivator. Just the thought of buying the new car, building your dream house, going on a well deserved vacation or sending the children to private school can instantly put a smile on your face. Then, reality sets in and you stare at your newly written goal asking, &#8220;Where do I begin?&#8221; When working with coaching clients, one of my first pieces of advice is: &#8220;Break your goals into bite-sized manageable pieces.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Success begins one positive bite-sized piece at a time.</strong></p>
<p>One thought, one hope, one goal and one action step at a time. It&#8217;s easy to become overwhelmed when looking at the whole &#8220;big picture.&#8221; It is much more empowering to break a goal into smaller more manageable tasks, projects and chores. Your ability to consistently manage your mindset of success is vital to achieving success. Tapping into the ability to go forward step-by-step and day-by-day is a huge part of achieving your goals.</p>
<p><strong>Here are a few tips for going positively forward:</strong></p>
<p><strong>Be very clear about what you want. </strong>It sounds simple enough but often we set goals that are too general. A well-written goal gives you the ability to take your goal and break it down into smaller doable pieces. A goal that is too general can seem overwhelming and the steps needed to achieve it, can seem unclear.</p>
<p><strong>Keep the important things, important. </strong>It is easy to get caught up in day-to-day life. A vital key to achieving success is knowing what is important to achieving your goal and what&#8217;s not. Here&#8217;s a rule of thumb: An important task is one that will take you at least one positive step closer toward your goal.</p>
<p><strong>Stay focused on what you are working toward. </strong>The past is the past. Achieving success is about going forward in positive and productive ways. You can&#8217;t go forward if you&#8217;re stuck in the &#8220;what-ifs&#8221; of the past. Focus on the rewards of achieving success.</p>
<p><strong>Regularly carve out quality time to work on your goal. </strong>Time management is a huge element of achieving success. Life happens and it is easy to become distracted by things that have nothing to do with going forward. Carving out quality time to keep the most important things important means planning and setting aside time to work on success. Get out that calendar and schedule quiet quality uninterrupted goal achieving time.</p>
<p><strong>Keep your goal alive in your mind. </strong>Personally, I&#8217;m a visual and I want to see my goal in front of me. I have a vision board, pictures of my goals on shelves around my office, my screen saver on my computer is my goal &#8211; I surround myself with my powerful inner motivators. Remind yourself of your motivating &#8220;why&#8221; for achieving success. It&#8217;s been said before, the bigger your &#8220;why&#8221; the more powerful your inner motivators. Success begins one bite-sized piece at a time &#8211; go for your goals one positive step at a time.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jan 2011 03:44:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[David Bell asked: Everything we do in life requires communication. Personal and business success often hinges on how well we understand others and how well they can understand us. If one of the objectives of communication is achieving a shared understanding, what can you do to become more effective when communicating? Here are few tips [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>David Bell						</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>Everything we do in life requires communication. Personal and business success often hinges on how well we understand others and how well they can understand us. If one of the objectives of communication is achieving a shared understanding, what can you do to become more effective when communicating?</p>
<p>Here are few tips that will help you become a more effective communicator:</p>
<p>Do you make eye contact when speaking or listening?</p>
<p>Yes, this is simple suggestion. Take a moment to think about how you feel when someone connects with you in this way. Do you feel really listened to? Does it seem that the person is focused on you and the message you want to convey? Adding a couple of head nods will also demonstrate to the speaker you are really listening and interested in what s/he is saying. Making these simple adjustments in your behavior will help improve your communication.</p>
<p>Do you keep from interrupting and the let person finish what s/he is saying?</p>
<p>One way to enhance your listening skills is to spend more time listening. One of the challenges inherent in listening is that we speak at an estimated rate of 125 to 150 words per minute and we think at the rate of an estimated 500 words per minute. That leaves a lot of time for a listener to wander off into his or her own thoughts, jump to conclusions or formulate a response before the speaker has finished saying what they want to say. One way you can stay focused and present in a conversation is by &#8220;listening&#8221; for the speaker&#8217;s non-verbal communication. One estimate has it that 75% of all communication is non-verbal. So, with the extra 350 or so words of thinking time you have available when you are listening, focus on the speaker and what they are communicating non-verbally.</p>
<p>Do your words and actions match?</p>
<p>Since communication occurs both verbally and non-verbally, it is important to make the message consistent. Send one message, not two. For example, have you ever found your posture rigid or tense while saying: &#8220;I&#8217;m fine, everything is just great.&#8221; There are two messages being sent. The body is sending one message and the words are sending another. Another example of this is a feeling you can get that someone isn&#8217;t telling you the whole story. Next time you have this sensation in a business or personal interaction, look at the person&#8217;s body language and/or ****** expression. Are the non-verbal cues in alignment with the words being spoken? When verbal and non-verbal communication is in sync, the message is perceived as genuine.</p>
<p>Does your vocal tone and inflexion match the words you are saying?</p>
<p>How you say the words of your message is as important as the words you use when expressing yourself. Think of the phrase, &#8220;Thank you&#8221; and the variety of ways it can be spoken. Depending on how the words are emphasized it will change the meaning. The same phrase can mean authentic gratitude or sarcasm. Think about the phrase, &#8220;Come here&#8221;. A parent speaking to a misbehaving child will have a different vocal tone than someone in a business context using the same phrase. Even the word &#8220;yes&#8221;, can have many meanings depending on how it is emphasized. A soft &#8220;yes&#8221; has a different meaning than a &#8220;YES&#8221; that is enthusiastic and forceful. Matching your intonation and inflexion to the message you intend to convey will increase your effectiveness when you communicate.</p>
<p>Are you aware of your barriers and filters?</p>
<p>Everyone has a point of view and at times it will affect how one communicates. Just think about the last time you were having a conversation with your spouse or significant other and then somehow, in a split second, you found yourself in the middle of an argument. How did things shift so quickly? One of you hit a trigger in the other, that&#8217;s how things can change so quickly. We all have triggers and in order to communicate responsibly in personal and business relationships it is imperative to know what they are. Everyone has an opinion and is a result of his/her background; the challenge when communicating is to become aware of how these two factors can shut down the communication process.</p>
<p>In the communication process the speaker AND the listener are equally responsible for the success of the interaction. And, because communication is a process, the roles are constantly shifting during a conversation. The speaker becomes the listener who becomes the speaker and so on.</p>
<p>These tips are just a few of the ways you can become more effective in your role as a speaker or listener. Remember, one of the primary needs that communication fulfills is the need to connect with other people. Incorporating any of these suggestions will give you greater access to connection, as well as personal and business success.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2011 22:45:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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<div><em><strong>Mandy Swift						</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>Success strategies: How well have your success strategies served you over the last year? Have you even got any: Take a look back at your life over the past 12 months and tally up the scores. How many times did you &#8216;Win&#8217; at something, and how many times did you &#8216;lose&#8217;? There is a famous quote by Canadian hockey player &amp; coach, Wayne Gretzky, who said: &#8220;You Miss 100% Of The Shots You Never Take&#8221;. And there is a great clue in there. If you feel you have &#8216;lost&#8217; more times than you would have liked in the last year, perhaps you need to ask yourself, how many times did you actually Play To Win?</p>
<p>&#8220;You Miss 100% Of The Shots You Never Take&#8221;. What does that actually mean? Have you ever missed out on something in your life, business, relationship because of the shot you were too afraid to take? Or maybe it means we should never risk taking a shot at anything in case we fail? If someone were to ask you, what is the biggest thing that is is currently holding you back from going all out and Playing to Win? I would hedge a bet that it is Fear of Failure. F-E-A-R- probably the biggest thief in our modern society. Bigger even than Procrastination because it is the causeof us doing nothing with our lives. F-E-A-R- stealing our dreams before we ever dare to go for them. In case we fail. F-E-A-R: F-alse E-vidence A-ppearing R-eal.</p>
<p>How many times in life, in business, in our relationships have we bailed out, unprepared to back ourselves, just because we couldn&#8217;t be sure we wouldn&#8217;t fail? In that moment, our fear of failure has 100% sealed our fortune. We have 100% no chance of winning because we never even gave ourselves the option of playing.</p>
<p>But what if you were wrong, what if you succeeded? Had you planned for that? Do you even have a mental image that you can run that plays out that possibility? Or has your Self-Image so sabotaged your chances of success that you are no longer even in the game? Is Success really so improbable to you that you never bother to even prepare for it, because you do not really believe it can ever be yours?</p>
<p>&#8220;Aim for the moon, at least if you miss you will be among the stars&#8221; &#8211; I don&#8217;t actually know who originally coined that phrase but it is so inspirational that I am going to borrow it here because I think it illustrates the point perfectly. Make it one of your success strategies. Your playing small does not serve the world. Play big. Even if you miss 90% of all the shots you ever take, at least you&#8217;ll be 110% better off than you would be had you played no shots at all. Sometimes we all need to take charge and start shooting at life, instead of sitting back and trying to dodge the cannon balls life shoots at us. Maybe all we need is a little bit of practice, the guts to back ourselves and put our money where our mouth is. Maybe we just need to change our surroundings, surround ourselves with a back-drop of positive people who are prepared to cheer for the winning side. What is your excuse for not achieving all the goals you have set for yourself this year? No money? No time? No support &#8211; Don&#8217;t know where to start? You have a choice, and the decision you take today could be the one that determines what your life looks like in 12 months time. Are you going to choose to miss 100% of your shots again this year, or is this the year when you decide you are finally going to change the rules, start shooting on target and Playing To Win?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[James V Chapman asked: Success is defined as how much we triumph and prosper in fame, fortune or happiness, while we are traveling on our lifelong Journey, even though we may face obstacles and adversity. Success in life is not a destination; it is a part of the Journey. Success can be realized in any [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>James V Chapman						</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>Success is defined as how much we triumph and prosper in fame, fortune or happiness, while we are traveling on our lifelong Journey, even though we may face obstacles and adversity.</p>
<p>Success in life is not a destination; it is a part of the Journey.</p>
<p>Success can be realized in any walk of life, by organizations, groups, communities, families and individuals.</p>
<p>In business, success may be seen as being the market leader or the first with an innovation or increasing the dividend to shareholders.</p>
<p>Sporting activities bring success in championships, trophies and medals.</p>
<p>Whereas, communities may see success as, a new school, or hospital, or youth center.</p>
<p>For families, success shows itself with house ownership, family unity and the progression of their children&#8217;s education.</p>
<p>Individuals measure success in terms of personal achievements, diplomas, promotions, salary increases and even the type of car they drive.</p>
<p>Success will be determined by how strong our motivation is, how inspired we are, what our attitude of mind might be, or how much vitality we have.</p>
<p>Success will also be affected by how good our performance is, how productive we are, or how creative we are.</p>
<p>But success is not only about how well recognized we are for our performance or by how much monetary prosperity that we have accumulated.</p>
<p>Success is also about the quality of our lives, our happiness and the state of our health.</p>
<p>The feeling of being successful is enduring, long after the initial success, whereas the obstacles and adversity that had to be overcome, in order to succeed are fleeting memories in the mists of the past.</p>
<p>We gain strength from success; it is the tangible reward for our endeavors. It shows it was worth the investment in time and energy. It lifts our spirits, so that we can continue the Journey.</p>
<p>Successful people have discovered that subtle &#8216;something&#8217; that enables them to overcome adversity.</p>
<p>When an unexpected change occurs, they do not perceive it as a problem; they welcome it as an opportunity for more success.</p>
<p>Successful people are self confident, determined, resilient, persistent, and tenacious; and believe in themselves being able to achieve their desired goal or objective.</p>
<p>Because of this, they are emotionally secure, in control; they listen to their instincts and are at harmony with themselves.</p>
<p>They are patient, knowing that sometimes things may take longer to achieve, but they know that they will achieve them.</p>
<p>Their motivating force is the desire to succeed, having faith in their actions and because of their tenacity, they will never, ever give up; they do not believe in failure.</p>
<p>Successful people have a deep urge to make progress, achieve their goals and to fulfil their dreams.</p>
<p>They have a vision which inspires them to grow and at the same time motivate and contribute to other peoples lives.</p>
<p>Successful people want to explore their potential, using all their capabilities, carefully listening and monitoring the situation and knowing instinctively when to take action and gain the rewards.</p>
<p>To them, everything is possible; it is only a matter of using their imagination, conceiving an idea, believing in themselves and then achieving it with their actions.</p>
<p>Successful people will aim higher than they know they can achieve, because they know that if they aim for the moon, even if they fall short, they will be in the stars.</p>
<p>They not only have motivation in abundance to help them, they are gifted with enthusiasm, passion, drive and ambition.</p>
<p>Nothing deters them, when others may say &#8216;it can&#8217;t be done&#8217;, they will find a way, even if it takes them a very long time to do it.</p>
<p>Successful people are very optimistic, full of energy and naturally healthy in body and mind.</p>
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