Success Principles

Dom Strong asked:

Achieving success in life is not the great cosmic mystery that many people make it out to be. It doesn’t require assistance from any divine force, nor did Pluto have to be in Uranus at the time of your birth in order for you to build a satisfying and productive life. No sir! In fact, all you need to start making progress in your life is the willingness to adhere to five rational Success Principles…

Success Principle #1 – Keep Your Mind On Your Own Potential

Many people live their lives constantly comparing themselves with others in order to determine how well they are doing in life. If they are doing as well or better than their neighbour, they are satisfied. If they are doing less well than the people they know, they are dissatisfied. The problem here is that few of those who compare themselves with others ever achieve what they are truly capable of achieving, because they stop pursuing better things just as soon as they are comfortably ‘in front’ of those around them.

Every individual has their own unique potential, so comparing yourself with another human being is futile. You should not care how you compare with other people. Instead, you should keep your mind on your own potential, and decide how well you are doing compared with that vision of possibility.

Your daily aim should not be to excel your neighbour, but to excel yourself. Make it your goal each day to surpass your own “personal best efforts” in terms of happiness, purposefulness and productivity.

Success Principle #2 – Embrace The Facts Of Reality

If there are things that you are not happy about in your life, do not try to hide these from yourself by engaging in mindless distractions such as smoking, drinking, over-eating or watching television. Neither should you blatantly ignore problems by pretending that they do not exist.

Instead, be honest enough to deliberately embrace the facts of reality at all times. No matter how ugly or painful the facts of reality may be, you need to look at them face on so that, in due course, you can deal with them effectively.

Success Principle #3 – Accept Responsibility For Your Own Life

Some people are in the habit of making excuses for the negative aspects of their lives, and often look to blame something or someone outside of themselves for their situation. The problem with taking this approach to life is that, as well as shifting responsibility outside yourself, it also shifts the power to improve the situation outside yourself, leaving you feeling powerless and victimised.

If you are overweight, you should accept that this is nobody’s fault but your own. If you are in debt, you should accept that you allowed yourself to get into debt. And if you are facing any other preventable problem in your life, you should accept that you are responsible for the existence of that problem, either directly or indirectly. The only way that can have total power over your life is to accept total responsibility for your own life.

Success Principle #4 – Identify Rational Solutions To Problems

Do not think, as many do, that your problems will somehow disappear of their own volition, or that some kind benefactor will show up and bail you out. Instead, live with the attitude that you are completely on your own, and that you must set about finding rational solutions to them for yourself.

Identifying rational solutions to problems is often a lot easier when one has had the courage to face them head-on. The rational solution to some problems is actually quite obvious. For example, the solution to being overweight is to exercise regularly and to consume only those foods which are low in both refined sugars and fats. And a rational solution to financial challenges is to learn how to make more money.

Finding rational solutions to more complicated problems will involve more time and effort, but they can be found all the same. Simply adopt the principle of identifying rational solutions to problems rather than expecting problems to disappear of their own volition. Remember the key nugget of this principle: you must live with the attitude that you are completely on your own, and that if you don’t solve the problem, nobody else will.

Success Principle #5 – Commit Yourself To Moving Forward

Far too many people solve a short term problem, only to go back to previous patterns of living that cause the same problem to occur again in the future. For example, people often get into debt, work hard so that they can get out of debt, only to then revert to lavish spending patterns which cause them to create more personal debt further down the line.

If you want to achieve your true potential then you cannot allow yourself to fall into this trap. Instead, having identified rational solutions to your problems, commit yourself to moving forward by taking appropriate action on a daily basis.

For example, if you have identified that you need to exercise regularly and eat a lot more carefully in order to lose weight, you should commit yourself to doing these things until your target weight is achieved. You should then continue to exercise and eat these healthier foods so that your ideal weight is maintained.

By adhering to these five Success Principles in the manner described, you will rid yourself of the muddy, pessimistic thinking that plagues most of society and move on to develop a clear, rational and optimistic mindset that pulls you forward toward a life of fulfilment. Practice using them consistently from this day forward and your ability to dominate your life will improve at a rapid rate.

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Creating Success

Joe Love asked:

How do you find success? The answer to this question is simple: You don’t find success; you create it. I believe we are all created equally with an abundance of opportunity from which anyone can make a successful life.

Most men and women want to find success, but you don’t find success anymore than you find steel. You refine steel from rough ore, and you create success from opportunities. An artist doesn’t find a beautiful statue; he or she sculpts it from shapeless stone. A musician doesn’t find a beautiful melody; he or she composes it from the eight note scale.

We are all born with an intellect and it is up to each individual to either use it or let it stagnate. We are all given a body and it is up to each individual to either keep it fit or let it deteriorate. We are all given 365 days in a year and it is up to each individual to either use them or waste them. Every person has a choice in life; to either succeed or fail. The choice is up to each individual, but the one thing that no one can do, is succeed without effort.

The world is full of people who just go through the motions. People who do little more than meet their basic obligations. They are the people who work from nine to five and never miss a coffee break. They arrive right at 9:00a.m and have their desks clear five minutes before 5:00p.m.

Most of these nine to fivers are good and decent people. They’re pleasant, interesting, and up on the latest movies. They’re never too busy to talk about last night’s ball game or the latest trend in fashions. They do their job and meet their obligations.

On the other hand these nine to fivers never study or read outside of their job description. They never come up with a new idea. They never raise questions or try to improve accepted company procedure, nor do they try to initiate change. They are generally satisfied with their jobs and put in just enough effort to earn their paychecks.

These are the people who make it easy for anyone who really wants to succeed in business to do so. Success in business is no secret. Unless you’re the son or daughter of successful entrepreneur, success is a matter of wanting to succeed, wanting to put in the extra hours, to concentrate fully, to challenge your mind and your imagination.

It comes down to commitment, persistence, and gaining the necessary knowledge you need to succeed. You must believe in your abilities, because if you want success badly enough and are prepared to work hard for it, you will achieve it.

Unfortunately, many people believe that they cannot succeed because they’re not educated, or smart enough. This is what separates the successful from the unsuccessful people. Successful people refuse to accept these self-limiting beliefs. They don’t measure themselves against other people. They evaluate their own potential not the potential of others. Success comes to them because they fix their minds on it and work hard to achieve it.

In the business world, the difference between winners and losers is often very small. For as example the salesperson who makes $100,000 a year is not twice as good as the salesperson who makes $50,000. The salesperson who makes $100,000 works a little harder, concentrates a little more, plans a little more carefully, knows the job a little better, refines his or her skills with greater care and is ready to make the extra effort.

People who succeed in business are people who love what they do. If there’s one dominant characteristic of leaders in any field, it’s their enthusiasm. Their eyes light up when they talk about their work and their enthusiasm in contagious.

To create success in any field you have to believe in what you’re doing, because if you’re excited about it and see it not as a job but as an opportunity or an adventure, you’ll almost certainly be successful. On the other hand, if you’re bored with your work or indifferent to it you’ll almost certainly fall short of your goals.

It’s difficult to be enthusiastic about your work if it doesn’t challenge and excite you. So, if your job is a drag and seems like just a burdensome responsibility, you should think long and hard about getting out of it. Start giving some serious thought to what success means to you and where it will take you. Look closely at the men and women who have reached the top of your field, the people who hold the positions you would like to have, and who make the money you would like to make. Then ask yourself: Will those achievements satisfy me? Would I enjoy a life like theirs?

While persistence, excitement, and enthusiasm are important elements to creating success, knowledge is the most important element in creating success. You must know your field. The people who move ahead in the world of business, who have the edge over their piers, are the experts in their field. They know what the realities are, what the potential is, and where the problems lie.

Your goal must be to learn everything you can about the field that you’re in. Seek out men and women who are leaders in your field. Read everything you can that pertains to your field. Listen to audio programs and regularly attend educational seminars that pertain to your field.

Set a goal to become not just an expert in your field, but to become the expert in your field. The world is full of self-proclaimed experts, people who don’t know what they’re talking about, but nonetheless fill the air with their opinions. The way to rise above them is know your field inside and out.

As you create your success you’re going to make mistakes, every successful person makes them. You’ve been given a world full of wonderful opportunities and it is up to you to take advantage of them. Success can be created only by a total commitment to achieving your goal, but it is the realization and the willingness to make the commitment that creates success.

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The Success of the Grateful Dead

Wes Hagan asked:

The Grateful Dead is one of the most influential bands in America to come out of the 1960′s. As the country was changing, so was the music culture. The Grateful Dead, or “the Dead” as they are more commonly known, capitalized on the troubled times of the late 1960′s by producing a quality and sound of music never heard before.

To begin, it is important to highlight the different band members. Jerry Garcia was the lead guitarist and the most popular member in the band. Phil Lesh played the bass, Rob Weir was the rhythm guitarist, Ron “Pigpen” McKernan was on keyboard and harmonica, and Bill Kreutzman was on percussion. McKernan, Lesh, and Garcia all shared all vocal responsibilities.

Though some of the original members are deceased, the Dead have been a popular band in the country since they got their start in 1965. They still play to fans at concert events every year. Possibly, the Grateful Dead were so popular because they created a sound that incorporated many traditional styles into a new type of sound never heard before.

Fans also attribute the band as being the pioneers of “jam bands.” Jam bands is a term used to describe music groups who use a wide arrangement of music instruments to produce a unique sound to every song they play. During a live performance, jam bands tend to deviate from album versions of songs to give each show a different feel.

The success of the Grateful Dead can be traced back to the bands inception in 1965. They drew a following from different walks of life by incorporating different sounds into their music. By harmonizing and promoting peace, they fit right in with the major pop culture that came out of the 1960′s. The Dead and San Francisco are credited with, if not starting, continuing the hippy craze of this time period.

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Set Yourself Up For Success – Uploading in a Download World

Daniel Sitter asked:

Do you remember back in the early days of the internet where various “Electronic Bulletin Boards” required you to upload so many files in proportion to the number of downloads you grabbed? File contributions were not only necessary, but were required. In fact, if you didn’t adhere to this policy, you may have been barred from downloading altogether. Everyone was so excited about connecting with other computers and these early Bulletin Boards with their 300 and 1200 baud modems, a far cry from today’s technology just 15-20 years later.

Unlike these Bulletin Boards, our society seems to foster an attitude of taking rather than giving. Most people are looking out for what will give them the most immediate gratification and reward, and aren’t generally interested in the welfare of others. Instead of the give and take philosophy of the early internet days, it’s more of a take-take-take mentality today. A “what’s in it for me” attitude dominates.

Giving is much more than simply a biblical concept. There is a feeling of great satisfaction and fulfillment earned each and every time we do something for or financially contribute to someone else or a cause greater than ourselves. There is no escaping the fact that we are designed that way. Such action is virtually guaranteed for our betterment. Giving, when done in the right spirit, is actually an investment in ourselves, in our future, that will cause us to reap far more than that which we sow. It represents a promise from almighty God Himself. It doesn’t get any bigger than that!

Not only is there the promise of a greater reward for our generosity, but there is the priceless reward of utter satisfaction, joy and fulfillment that fills our heart as a result of giving. Doing a good deed for someone else, especially when done in anonymity, where there is no opportunity for material reward, will make you feel good about yourself and your place in the world. This intangible reward is far greater than any fleeting monetary payment. This mindset of joyful giving is essential for our success.

What does success mean to you? Is it the end result or goal that you aspire to attain? Is success a new address in a better part of town, membership in an elite club or surpassing the Jones’? Is success tangible or intangible? Is your previous definition of success enough or does it leave you wanting more? Whatever success means to you, it is probably much more about the journey than any particular achievement. Try adding cheerful giving to your success formula. You’ll be astonished where it will take you.

Knowing exactly what it is that you want is critical. Having a detailed plan for its achievement is absolutely necessary. Taking consistent and persistent action, while constantly monitoring your progress and altering your strategy accordingly, will surely help you in your journey. Giving, while often not grabbing the spotlight, will definitely contribute to the satisfaction that you seek and make a difference in the life of someone else. Giving is a strong component of success. You will surely get back more than you ever gave away.

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The Success of Online Business

Samantha Sales asked:

It is quite impossible to become a fulfilled entrepreneur if one fails to bring enough advantages that will make a site prosper towards the much sought success. The business owner’s return of investment is the major goal of every entrepreneur. Dealing with success would of course only be made possible if one would gain enough profit and make the business go without dealing with so many inconveniences.

Online business owners have become so smart enough to know the effective way to ensure their business’ success. The Internet has become the most effective tool for them to meet their goals and it is definitely the best way to gain the most number of prospective clients within a short period of time.

Doing business over the Internet can be guaranteed of success by engaging on the following:

• Take time to search for companies of web design in Allentown. Getting assured of quality is the vital step towards the success of your business.
• Be precise in choosing the professionals to work on your site. There are several ColdFusion programmers and ColdFusion web developers who would surely offer their services. Take time to check their portfolio and be the best judge if they can bring much success to your business.
• Give enough time. It may need some time in order for a project to be accomplished. Be patient and be assured that things are being done to achieve excellence.
• Plan your budget. Doing business may really mean spending so much on different things. Make sure that you will be able to allot a budget for your website creation in order to avid dealing with problems in the end.

Business owners should not be burdened with too many uncertainties when deciding for the things that will greatly benefit their undertaking. Put important matters into consideration accordingly and for sure you will be in the greatest comfort at your most convenient time.

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